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My children. I was away an awful lot when they were little and not very good at being a father when I was around. I could have done better.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 5 May 2018 source ↗
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Adjoa Andoh
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My dad’s parents in Ghana, for not spending more time with them.
Jacqueline Wilson
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A little girl called Pat. We were nine-year-olds together and all the class made her life a misery. I knew she wanted to be my friend and I would only be friends with her if nobody else was around. I feel dreadful about that.
Bella Freud
British fashion designer
I’ve said sorry to everybody I wanted to – I’m good at saying sorry quickly.
Elaine Paige
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If I have upset someone, I have said sorry to him or her at the time.
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