Right now. It's a beautiful thing to find yourself "the wrong side of 40" and more in love with life than ever. I never tell people this publicly as they wrongly assume the only valid creative state is that of the cliche of the tubercular, tortured artist coughing up blood in his garret.
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When I was 15 and starting my first job as a messenger boy at the post office, delivering telegrams.
My teenage years in the Runaways: I was still naive enough to think good things about the world and life and people, and I was having fun playing rock’n’roll around the world, living the dream.
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View profile →I’d have stuck with the original Dexys Midnight Runners look we started in 1978, which became known as the New Romantic look a couple of years later. Our management and record label talked us out of it. Later, Duran Duran and Spandau came out with that look and that made us look old-fashioned.
My dad said, “You’re going nowhere.” I was seven or eight.
Gerry Adams, because he’s got incredible integrity and vision, and he’s had to put up with so much flak.
I worked in the stores of Edgware hospital when I was about 17, and it was grey and depressing.
Shakespeare said, “There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so” – I think that’s true.
My brother Pete passing on in 2005.
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