Bruno Tonioli
Italian choreographer
Sheer drops, like a precipice.
What is your greatest fear?
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What has been your biggest disappointment?
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What is the most important lesson life has taught you?
Time & hindsight
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What did you want to be when you were growing up?
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When were you happiest?
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Which moment embarrassed you most?
Failure & regret
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What most recently made you cry?
Identity & self
Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Not being able to breathe – I get very panicky at the thought.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 July 2023 source ↗
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John Malkovich
American actor
That the Proust Questionnaire will continue to be used by lazy, overworked journalists for another century or so (since you asked …).
Lily Tomlin
Comedian and actor
Being onstage and forgetting why I’m there.
People finding out my greatest fear.
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View profile →Actors live in a constant state of disappointment. I’ll never be happy with what I’ve done.
Never be rigid in your thinking, be open.
A hairdresser – I still want to be a hairdresser.
I hope the happiest moment is still ahead of me.
Eight or nine years ago, I disgraced myself in the Japanese ambassador’s home in Dublin, at a celebration for my late mother-in-law’s book about living in Japan. Afterwards, when I had to apologise, she told me it was the worst night of her life and, because I was drunk enough not to remember the details, it will never not be the most embarrassing night of my life. People are filling in details even now – “Remember when you fell under the table during the first course?”
Walking along Oxford Street on Saturday pulling a shopping trolley that my mother bought me. I remember saying, “I’m never going to use that!” and there I was, very grateful to have it in my life. She died before Christmas and I can’t ring her to tell her that she was right.
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