Catastrophising.
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View all 243 →Being giving to the detriment of myself.
Shyness. It really held me back when I was younger, and I wish it hadn’t. I do a better job of not being so shy these days.
Well, first of all I’d like to change the word “deplore” to “dislike.” I guess that I’m almost a hermit; I don’t enjoy going out that much, and so I tend to take my happiness from the joys of my home and my husband.
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To not be afraid, to stand there and be strong and loving and honest.
When Rufus first came out, it was all white guys and myself, but then the band changed and Tony Maiden, Bobby Watson and Andre Fischer came in. This guy booked us for a gig in Illinois, based on our original album cover, and when we got there he said that there were too many black people in the band. He actually put some white guys on the stage with us.
Peace and honesty.
Staying alive, being here at this age. So many songs. It’s crazy.
I guess lack of patience as well.
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