I am not afraid.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 May 2024 source ↗
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What do you fear most?Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
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I am not afraid.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 May 2024 source ↗
Figuratively doing nothing.
Drowning. The feeling of not being able to take a breath. I’m sure my therapist would have something to say about the deep psychological reasons for it.
When I was growing up, I thought quicksand was going to be a much bigger fear to contend with on a day‑to-day basis. It hasn’t proved to be a bother yet, but there’s still time.
Losing my makeup bag.
I guess lack of patience as well.
Staying alive, being here at this age. So many songs. It’s crazy.
When Rufus first came out, it was all white guys and myself, but then the band changed and Tony Maiden, Bobby Watson and Andre Fischer came in. This guy booked us for a gig in Illinois, based on our original album cover, and when we got there he said that there were too many black people in the band. He actually put some white guys on the stage with us.
To not be afraid, to stand there and be strong and loving and honest.
A friend said, “If you remembered everything you did, you’d kill yourself.” He’s sort of crazy, but he’s probably right.
That I have no patience.
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