My need to be liked.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
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Bad timekeeping.
Self-doubt and a reoccurring fear that people would prefer the other Alfred Molina.
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A guitar – a 1959 Gibson 335.
I felt like I messed up my marriage. I don’t feel that way any more, but at the time I was devastated.
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