Fran Healy
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I have a hard time with people who are manipulative.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
I don’t like it when people manipulate your words, which sometimes happens in the tabloids.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 August 2022 source ↗
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Taking fucking forever. Can’t you see I’m waiting?
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Self-importance.
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When I was growing up, I thought quicksand was going to be a much bigger fear to contend with on a day‑to-day basis. It hasn’t proved to be a bother yet, but there’s still time.
My younger self. I told myself so often that I was not good enough, that I was not smart enough, that I was not interesting enough, that I was boring and ugly. I wasn’t kind to my body, and I did and said things to myself that I would never do or say to a friend.
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This sounds so silly, but I cry with happiness all the time. I cry when my flowers open!
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