As Tilda Swinton in a fat suit.
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Originally asked
Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions
A recurring legacy prompt in Vogue's 73 Questions, appearing with only minor wording changes.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
As someone who had a laugh.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 6 August 2022 source ↗
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Griff Rhys Jones
British actor and comedian
As a charming, helpful, solicitous, generous, loving, carefree and constantly funny companion, lover and father. Some hope of that.
Simon Mayo
English radio presenter and author
The friend behind the microphone.
Eve Ensler
American playwright, performer, feminist, and activist
As being useful.
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View profile →This sounds so silly, but I cry with happiness all the time. I cry when my flowers open!
When I was growing up, I thought quicksand was going to be a much bigger fear to contend with on a day‑to-day basis. It hasn’t proved to be a bother yet, but there’s still time.
I don’t like it when people manipulate your words, which sometimes happens in the tabloids.
My younger self. I told myself so often that I was not good enough, that I was not smart enough, that I was not interesting enough, that I was boring and ugly. I wasn’t kind to my body, and I did and said things to myself that I would never do or say to a friend.
J-Lo, a foreign correspondent and, at uni, I assumed that someone would tap me on the shoulder and ask me to be in MI6, but it never happened.
I can’t say no. I am a people-pleaser, and it means that I burn myself out because I take on too much.
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