Probably missing out on roles I really, really wanted, but I’m a big believer that if it’s for you, you’ll have it. So those clearly weren’t for me.
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View all 366 →Losing out on a role, any role. I get so invested. I can take rejection, but only when useful feedback is given.
Not being truthful to everyone from an earlier age.
Not going to uni and getting my English degree.
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Not applying myself enough at school.
A ballet dancer, but it changed to being an actress when I got put in a school play.
The Queen. Her like has not been seen before and I doubt it will ever be again.
I wish I could say sorry to my husband, because I couldn’t save him from his dementia.
One of my favourite songs is Being Alive, from Company by Stephen Sondheim, but it would hardly be appropriate.
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