Daphne Guinness
British socialite
Gossip and backstabbing.
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When were you happiest?
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What is the most important lesson life has taught you?
Time & hindsight
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What keeps you awake at night?
Daily life
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Which moment embarrassed you most?
Failure & regret
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What do you consider your greatest achievement?
Craft & work
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What is the worst job you have done?
Craft & work
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Arrogance, bullying, meanness – just try to be kind, it’s not difficult.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 March 2023 source ↗
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Angela Griffin
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People who are not self-aware.
Yogi Berra
Baseball catcher and manager; ten-time World Series winner with the New York Yankees
Talking too much.
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View profile →After the birth of both my children, although Manchester United winning the treble in 1999 came pretty close.
Live in the moment. Enjoy life because time cruelly speeds up as you get older and becomes scarily finite.
A couple of years ago we moved to East Sussex – I had been living in London for 35 years – and couldn’t work out why I kept waking up and thinking, what’s that sound? It was actually silence.
Going to pieces while meeting John Squire, the lead guitarist of the Stone Roses, backstage after a gig. I completely lost the ability to speak. I told him I had the same guitars as he’d just used on stage, and when he asked me which ones, the words completely went out of my head and there was a huge pause, and then his wife tapped his shoulder and he wandered off.
Professionally, becoming a relative success in a job that I love; and personally, helping to raise two wonderful children.
Working in a very busy bar in the West End when I was trying to pay my way through drama school. I had to dance in a cage in a vest and cycling shorts to Venus by Bananarama, Greased Lightnin’ and Y.M.C.A. every night. It was excruciating.
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