Losing my mum when I was 28.
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At 16, I thought I’d be part of transforming the world into a socialist egalitarian arena of peace and justice. I’m not sure we’ve quite managed it.
I was very disappointed when I realised I was never going to be an Olympic gymnast, but that was a long time ago.
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Two days ago. To move to New York.
Losing the people that I love.
Barack Obama, for his humility and grace in the face of enormous difficulty.
Redemption. People can be redeemed, goals can be redeemed.
“You’re selfish.” It was a friend.
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