I don’t have a sorry.
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View all 209 →To my cousin P, who was one of my best mates growing up. We lost him when we were in our 20s and, before he passed away, I was so busy with this stupid thing called life and a brand new kid. He called me and said: “Bro, I’m not feeling right.” And I said: “Bro, you’ve never been feeling right.” And it always sits on my head that if me or somebody else had been paying more attention maybe things would have worked out different. He had extremely rare bowel cancer and died five weeks later at 27.
Anyone whose party I said I’d go to and didn’t turn up. I can get quite socially anxious at times.
To my teachers, for not paying attention.
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Being hard on myself. I don’t want to pass that on to my daughters, so I’m trying to stop.
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