Katharine Hamnett
English fashion designer
To my parents, for being such a bitch.
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Aside from a property, what is the most expensive thing you have bought?
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Which living person do you most admire, and why?
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What did you want to be when you were growing up?
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Identity & self
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I behaved badly with two old lovers. Years later, when I took one to lunch to apologise, it made it worse.
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Rylan Clark-Neal
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To the British public for my time on X Factor.
Vick Hope
British television and radio presenter
My younger self. I told myself so often that I was not good enough, that I was not smart enough, that I was not interesting enough, that I was boring and ugly. I wasn’t kind to my body, and I did and said things to myself that I would never do or say to a friend.
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I’m walking down a street in New York, the sun is shining, I’m on my way to see friends who are chosen family—and I’ve just written a couple of pages that I like.
In my 30s, I was staring at a pair of expensive boots in a shop window when the photographer Gordon Parks came up behind me. He instantly understood, because he grew up even poorer than me; he made me buy them on my credit card.
Dr Denis Mukwege, because he is to sexualised violence against females what Mandela was to apartheid.
First a horse rancher, then a dancer.
I would love to have a good memory. I’m at an age when remembering something right away is as good as an orgasm.
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