Airline tickets. I spend a lot on flying because I’ve three kids in the UK.What would your superpower be?To drink as much beer as I can without putting on weight.

My wedding. It was at Skibo Castle long before Madonna or any of those people went there.

A page from Jim Morrison’s final notebook – I bought it as a birthday gift for a friend.

My wife. I am a lavish present-giver. I love worshipping my wife with beautiful bits and pieces – it is one of my greatest pleasures.

I’m walking down a street in New York, the sun is shining, I’m on my way to see friends who are chosen family—and I’ve just written a couple of pages that I like.

Being a salesgirl in a baby shop where the others said things like, “He’s Jewish, but she’s American.” Also, after college, being a waitress in London, and trying to make change in the old money of shillings and pence.

Dying just a millisecond before I was about to say something I really wanted the people I love to hear.

Dr Denis Mukwege, because he is to sexualised violence against females what Mandela was to apartheid.

As someone who left the world around me a little kinder and less hierarchical.

I behaved badly with two old lovers. Years later, when I took one to lunch to apologise, it made it worse.