I would get therapy in my early 20s.
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View all 203 →I could have done without being sexually assaulted, or having an eating disorder, or pushing myself to breaking point, but every chapter of my life brought me here.
I practise stoicism. Not the stiff-upper-lip, modern stuff, but the ancient Greek philosophy. You have to accept what you can’t change. I try to face forwards all the time. When that doesn’t work, I think about buying a machine gun.
I would have tried to meet Lou Reed backstage. I went to see him for years, and never tried to meet him. Eventually we met at award shows and did become friends.
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Never making it into a Sondheim musical.
When my son was born. Actually, probably a month after, when I got over the enormous responsibility of being a mum.
The world we are bequeathing to our children and our children’s children, both climatically and politically.
Better hearing.
As good enough.
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