I wouldn’t change anything. Life is what it is, you just have to get on with it.
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View all 203 →I would have spent every single day with my sister before she left to live in New Zealand. At my wedding, it was the first time I had seen her in two and a half years.
I practise stoicism. Not the stiff-upper-lip, modern stuff, but the ancient Greek philosophy. You have to accept what you can’t change. I try to face forwards all the time. When that doesn’t work, I think about buying a machine gun.
I’d have been less precocious as a child (you grow up fast in New York). I’d have prolonged the naivety.
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In 1989, in Cuba, about to board a plane for Milan, where I was going to school for a year. The visa didn’t arrive in time, so I couldn’t board. The plane crashed and people died.
Selling stolen mangoes to pay for a cinema ticket, aged eight.
As someone who made a difference.
A few nights ago I was crying in my sleep, dreaming of my dead parents.
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