Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Dick Cheney for hating him for being one of the most destructive people on Earth.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 August 2007 source ↗

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To my cousin P, who was one of my best mates growing up. We lost him when we were in our 20s and, before he passed away, I was so busy with this stupid thing called life and a brand new kid. He called me and said: “Bro, I’m not feeling right.” And I said: “Bro, you’ve never been feeling right.” And it always sits on my head that if me or somebody else had been paying more attention maybe things would have worked out different. He had extremely rare bowel cancer and died five weeks later at 27.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 December 2025 source ↗
Harriet Walter English actress
My mother, because I didn’t appreciate until after she’d gone that she was a vulnerable human being. I just expected her to know everything and be everything.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 23 December 2017 source ↗
Tracy-Ann Oberman Actor and writer
To my grandma Faye, because I didn’t realise, when I was growing up, what an icon she was. She fought at Cable Street, and worked her arse off to get the family out of the tenements. She had a lot of wisdom to impart.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 August 2021 source ↗

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