Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?

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Recorded George H. W. Bush said elsewhere, not written here
Nobody has ever accused me of being a superior communicator. If I could have conveyed to the American people the concerns I had, and my heartbeat, a little more clearly, maybe I would not be unemployed and retired. And I might not be this happy, either. I learned a lot from Ronald Reagan about communication. Never got to be in his league in terms of it, but he could say something and the American people might not agree with the issue, but they could empathize with him.

Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗

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My phobias. I’m down to two, so I take that as a positive sign.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, April 2023 source ↗
Forgetting. Or, worse yet, not recognizing who my real friends are.
Recorded Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, January 2010 source ↗

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Question What are you most proud of? Identity & self
This may sound like a cliché, but I’ll put it this way. The proudest thing in my life is that my children came home. The proudest moment of my presidency, domestically, was when I signed a piece of civil rights legislation known as the ADA, doing something for the disabled. A massive piece of civil rights legislation that put disabled people, 50 million of them, into the mainstream, or at least removed legal obstacles to their being in the mainstream.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗
Question Which book changed the way you think, and what did it change? Taste & recommendation
One of the historians here in Williamsburg talked about War and Peace. I had to read that in school. It was an inspiring, lengthy treatise. I read it twice. It taught me a lot about life. There was a marvelous book by Salinger called Catcher in the Rye. There was a book about discrimination called Gentleman's Agreement. These books I think helped shape my life. But to be honest with you, not one book stands out as the defining book for me.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗
Question What is the hardest thing that has happened to you, and what did you carry out of it? Failure & regret
If you really want to make a difference, whether it’s in helping other people, or whether it’s in fighting for your country, or whether it’s in the political arena, or journalism, or physics, you’ve got to persevere. You’ve got to understand that there are going to be some enormous bumps in the road.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗
Question What has been your biggest disappointment? Failure & regret
When I lost a race for the United States Senate, I thought the world was going to end for me politically, and 18 years later I was elected President of the United States. The biggest disappointment was that I wasn't able to communicate properly to the American people — with the proper conviction and the proper ability — where the country really stood. The pessimists, the naysayers, the change-wanters overwhelmed me, and I wasn't good enough. I wasn't articulate enough to have the country understand that we weren't in a recession, that we were in a rather booming economy in the last half of my presidency. That was a personal shortcoming, a failure on my path.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, Williamsburg, Virginia, 2 June 1995 source ↗

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