All of them. I’m not someone who can sit down and read – I wish I could.
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Ulysses – I’ve tried many times and never got through it.
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I cry all the time. It’s embarrassing. I mostly cry when my children perform something at school. My wife regularly says, “Do you see any other fathers weeping?” But I can’t stop myself.
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