Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Siri Hustvedt said elsewhere, not written here
The man who asked me directions on the subway seven years ago: I am so sorry for sending you to Queens rather than to the Bronx.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 19 August 2017 source ↗

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Melanie Chisholm British pop singer
The Spice Girls – Mel B, Geri and Emma – who wanted to mark our 20th anniversary, and the fans. It was not something I felt comfortable doing.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 October 2016 source ↗
My parents, because I rather slipped from their standards on more than one occasion. And when they got older, I wish I’d been kinder and more tolerant with them.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 14 February 2026 source ↗
Gina McKee British actress
My brother: I never meant to kill your pet frog. I thought I was doing a good deed cleaning the mossy tank with bleach. Can I also say sorry to the frog?
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 30 January 2016 source ↗

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