Bullying, whether face to face or online.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Vanity Fair, 7 February 2005 source ↗
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I find it really interesting the way people are drawn to power, usually male power, sometimes in its dark mode. I wonder what they get from it. My experience of bastards is that there is very little material benefit gained from being in their company, though you feel there might be, any minute. Or you get something for a while and then the polarity switches. It’s a huge con. Trump made the mechanism clear – in this, I think he is a timely figure.
After the third time someone’s late, we can’t be friends any more.
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Champagne.
The loss of physical, financial, and psychological independence.
Doing cryptic crosswords or, equally, reading tales of mystery and imagination.
In their company, each of us doing his/her own thing in perfect harmony.
Thrust into my profession without any training whatsoever, I had to just flounder and just find my way. It was an agonizing experience. It’s like jumping off a diving board in the Olympic contest without knowing how to swim or dive, and I just had to find my way. So one day, I said to Jimmy Cagney, “Jimmy, what is acting?” and he said, “I don’t know.” He said, “All I can tell you is whatever you say, mean it,” and I thought that marvelous counsel.
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