Daphne Guinness
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My trust in other people. I am rigorously honest.
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Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's The Q&A has retained this Proust-derived prompt from at least 2007 through 2026, and ABC independently put it to the Obamas in 2011.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
the natural tendency to solidify a narrative that makes you look good
Hope Reese, interview, Longreads, 6 August 2019 source ↗
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Ed Harris
American actor and director
Asking my wife questions that don't need to be asked.
My ability to make everything about me.
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It’s a gift to let yourself be changed by a person, and for a person to allow you to change them.
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