I don’t think places have essences any more than people do.
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If you could have a gigantic billboard anywhere, what would it say and why?
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What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore?
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In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour, or habit has most improved your life?
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What would you like to be remembered for?
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When you feel overwhelmed or unfocused, what do you do?
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What do you consider your greatest achievement?
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Too often women are told not to be ambitious. Girls are told not to be ambitious, to just fit in, don’t rock the boat, be happy and grateful for what you already have. And it’s like—no, the only way things change is if we start demanding what we deserve.
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Allyson Felix
United States sprinter, 2003–2022
If we have children, we risk pay cuts from our sponsors during pregnancy and afterward. It's one example of a sports industry where the rules are still mostly made for and by men.
Steve Jobs
Co-founder and chief executive of Apple; co-founder of NeXT; chief executive of Pixar
Design is a funny word. Some people think design means how it looks. But of course, if you dig deeper, it's really how it works. The design of the Mac wasn't what it looked like, although that was part of it. Primarily, it was how it worked.
Jocelyn Bell Burnell
Radio astronomer; discoverer of pulsars
The next generation of telescopes will see millions of events per night with computers that sift through huge amounts of data. If we had had access to a computer, we would never have programmed it to look for something so unexpected. How do you pick up the things you don't know exist, the things you can't tell it to look for? My project was to study quasars, and then we accidentally stumble over these things called pulsars. They were totally unexpected, totally unknown – and it's been huge fun.
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Louise Walsh, University of Cambridge 'Journeys of Discovery' interview series, 1 January 2020
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View profile →GIVE ME THE RESPECT I'VE EARNED AND GIVE IT TO MY WOLF PACK TOO.
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Barnard College commencement address, Radio City Music Hall, New York, Speakola, 16 May 2018
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I stayed on the path out of fear, not of being eaten by a wolf, but of being cut, being benched, losing my paycheck. If I could go back and tell my younger self one thing it would be this: "Abby, you were never Little Red Riding Hood; you were always the wolf."
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Barnard College commencement address, Radio City Music Hall, New York, Speakola, 16 May 2018
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You see, soccer didn't make me who I was. I brought who I was to soccer, and I get to bring who I am wherever I go. And guess what? So do you.
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Barnard College commencement address, Radio City Music Hall, New York, Speakola, 16 May 2018
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Forget me." Because if I am forgotten, then I know that the game has grown and the game is better. If I am forgotten, then somebody else has taken my place. And that is the natural order of the world.
Without that structure, I ended up feeling overwhelmed.
I look back on many parts of my career and none rises to the top of the pride avenue for me more than the way that I responded to the benching in the 2015 Women’s World Cup.
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