What is the best advice you have ever received?

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Recorded Pete Rozelle said elsewhere, not written here
It was a very simple thing. It was a church camp, I think. I was there about two or three days, very young, and I just remember some counselor telling us that reputation is what people think you are, and your character is what you are. So if you have a bad reputation, you might as well have a bad character, and it pays to have a good reputation and a good character.

Academy of Achievement interview, Rancho Santa Fe, California, 15 May 1991 source ↗

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Andrew Lloyd Webber Composer of musical theatre
Harold Prince went to see it and he wrote me a letter saying don’t be discouraged about this because actually there’s some quite good songs in here. But he also said something which stayed with me all my life, which is that you can’t listen to a musical if you can’t look at it, by which he was actually saying that the designs for Jeeves were absolutely hideous.
Recorded Academy of Achievement interview, New York City, 13 September 2019 source ↗
Margaret Atwood Novelist, poet and critic
In 1972, by Farley Mowat, after I’d had a modest success: “Now you’re a target, and people will shoot at you.” Which is not about how to write, but about some of the consequences of having done so.
Recorded 21 Questions, Penguin Books UK, 15 February 2022 source ↗
Alice Sheppard Dancer, Choreographer
You may think it is the worst thing ever, but you will grow from it. People will forgive and forget.
Recorded Sophie Griffiths, DIVA, 9 April 2020 source ↗
Alan Cumming Scottish actor, producer, director, writer and presenter
Plug it in, switch it on and read the bloody label.
Recorded Interview, The Marketing Society, 10 November 2016 source ↗

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Question What is your favourite side project? Craft & work
I became interested in the United Way, because, in our contract with the television networks, we had a certain amount of promo time for ourselves. It was so much money, about $40 million a year. We had a couple of extra minutes on each tape, on each network. We used them for a while on relatively self-serving things, and I thought, rather than have that time be spent on saying “the NFL is great,” we should try to use it for some good. That’s when we bound our relationship with the United Way.
Recorded Rancho Santa Fe, California, Academy of Achievement, 15 May 1991 source ↗
Question What role should instinct play in major decisions? Craft & work
I think to a certain respect, yes. But also, you try to follow the best guidelines you have, the constitutional by-laws. You have to interpret them from time to time, but in the final analysis, in some instances, it would be a gut reaction. But a gut based on preparation and study. Not just a fly-by-night gut reaction.
Recorded Rancho Santa Fe, California, Academy of Achievement, 15 May 1991 source ↗
Question What is the biggest obstacle you have faced professionally? Craft & work
That was a direct challenge to the NFL constitution, which said you have to have a three-quarters approving vote if you’re going to move your franchise. And we had Davis challenge that in his move from Oakland to Los Angeles. And it was sitting there in the constitution, and I couldn’t just say, “Oh, I’m not going to press this.” I brought it to the attention of the owners, and I said, “I think we have to defend this constitution.” So we had two trials over a couple of years.
Recorded Rancho Santa Fe, California, Academy of Achievement, 15 May 1991 source ↗
Question Which book are you ashamed not to have read? Taste & recommendation
There really wasn’t. That’s one thing I kind of regret. I started reading, and became interested in reading very young. But I read sports books. I read sports pages and newspapers. That’s one thing that I would like to have had that I missed, reading more scholarly books than I did. I was so devoted to sports.
Recorded Rancho Santa Fe, California, Academy of Achievement, 15 May 1991 source ↗
Question What single thing would improve the quality of your life? Daily life
Because everyone has to have an outlet. Otherwise you can get so involved in your job, or any one thing, that you’re not a very well-balanced person, and you’re not happy either, normally. I think it’s very important to take up an avocation. Sports — that was mine. But gosh, it could be music. It could be any number of things that can help give you that escape from your job or your family problems.
Recorded Rancho Santa Fe, California, Academy of Achievement, 15 May 1991 source ↗

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