Shappi Khorsandi
Iranian-born British comedian
Teachers who recognise that each child is different.
Which living person do you most admire, and why?
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When were you happiest?
Time & hindsight
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
Identity & self
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What is your greatest fear?
Identity & self
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How would you like to die?
Death & what remains
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What is your idea of perfect happiness?
Identity & self
Originally asked
The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A
The Guardian's Q&A repeatedly uses this prompt, sometimes dropping 'living' while retaining the same comparative judgment.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Meghan Markle. I don’t know how she continues to walk through this world with the grace, strength, and purpose that she does given the unbearable amount of vitriol and hate she has been subjected to, but she does. I wish she didn’t have to.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, August 2023 source ↗
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Charlie Munger
Vice chairman of Berkshire Hathaway, 1978–2023
John Wooden, when he was the number one basketball coach in the world. He just said to the bottom five players, “You don't get to play. You're sparring partners.” The top seven did all the playing.
Malala Yousafzai
Education campaigner; co-founder of the Malala Fund; United Nations Messenger of Peace
Women in leadership positions in every field who are using their advantages to inspire younger women.
Laurence Llewelyn-Bowen
English interior designer and television personality
The missus. She is the glamour mamma mia at the top of our feudal pyramid. We all live together, so she’s a full-time grandmother and rules the roost. How she steered us through lockdown was extraordinary.
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If hoarding and procrastination were Olympic sports, I’d have at least 70 gold medals.
Balloons. I have a big phobia of balloons. Big.
In my bed at home at a ripe old age with the knowledge that my children, and grandchildren if I have any, are thriving, happy, and provided for.
Being at home on a Sunday night with my husband, Will, and all of our children, eating chicken tikka masala and naan from our favorite restaurant.
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