Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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To my father, for not telling him the truth when he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and going along with the family lie that he had hepatitis, when he knew he didn’t. At the age of 17, I lacked the courage and strength to stand up for what I believed.

The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 26 October 2019 source ↗

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Anne Enright Novelist and short-story writer
I was not great with my mother-in-law, who was a very gentle woman. I thought she would be an uninvited part of my life for ever, but she died early and I wished I had been more open and patient.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 7 September 2024 source ↗
My children, because I spent the majority of their youth away from them as I’m the breadwinner and I had to pay the bills.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 January 2024 source ↗
My father, with whom I had a complex relationship: often, when I was young, his desire to protect me clashed with the stubbornness of my choices.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 November 2024 source ↗

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