Gary Barlow
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We’re in such a good place now as a family. It’s the same for my career. I say no to so many things; I never used to be able to.
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Between 2007 and 2016, I had a large white rabbit called WillyFred. I was happiest pressing my ear to his fur and hearing his heart beat.
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As I get older, I get happier.
I don’t remember the womb, so … my first taste of ice cream? First night in a girl’s bed: happy.
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