Their willingness to put up with my endless explanations about why I can’t see them because I’m under deadline.
The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, 1 September 2012 source ↗
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Which quality in your friends matters most to you?Originally asked
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View all 65 →The ability to be themselves rather than hiding behind a mask.
They want nothing but friendship.
A sense of humor and/or the ability to use a toilet correctly.
Taking daily showers and always being there when I need them.
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A glass of wine, a good dinner with my husband, and a day ahead of me without a deadline is close enough.
The inability to stop talking about themselves when they’re not being interviewed.
Living with severe chronic pain, or forgetting the name of the person I’m interviewing.
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