The question

If you could edit your past, what would you change?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

Repeated verbatim in The Guardian's long-running Saturday Q&A; two publisher-hosted examples establish recurrence.

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Alessia Cara

Canadian singer-songwriter

Recorded said elsewhere, not written here
Yeah, I think I would’ve talked to people more and learned more. Throughout my high school years I was very quiet, I didn’t have many friends. I distanced myself from a lot of people. I don’t know why, I don’t really think there was a particular reason, just my personality—I didn’t really try to make friends or talk to people outside of the two people that I talked to, you know what I mean? I would’ve definitely tried to make more friends and not worry what people would think of me if I talked to them. And learn a lot more, ask more questions, and absorb as much as I could. I definitely tried, but I don’t know if tried hard enough.

Devon Ivie, Interview Magazine, 2015 source ↗

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Simone Biles United States artistic gymnast
Nothing. Everything has led me to who and where I am now.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 25 February 2017 source ↗
Alain de Botton Writer and philosopher; founder of The School of Life
I'd take a course in bread-making and open a small bakery.
Recorded Rosanna Greenstreet, The Q&A, The Guardian, 21 March 2009 source ↗
Ernst Mayr Naturalist and evolutionary biologist
There's only one thing where I… if I had the opportunity to live my life over again where I probably would make a change.…I think if I had shortened that period and had earlier begun to work on basic evolutionary theory on history of biology and particularly on the philosophy of biology, I could have achieved some things which now I will never be able to achieve because at age 93, one knows that one doesn't live forever.
Recorded Walter J. Bock, Web of Stories, October 1997 source ↗

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Question What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore? Time & hindsight
To just chill out and not worry. Growing up, I worried about every little thing. I was like, "oh I'm not good enough, I'm not confident enough, I'm not pretty enough, I'm not this and that." I would cry about my appearance, and cry about a bunch of things that don't matter to me now. I would just say, the stuff that matters now won’t matter in a few years, and just chill out and enjoy your life.
Recorded Danielle Sinay, Teen Vogue, 13 September 2016 source ↗

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