Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?

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Recorded Keren Woodward said elsewhere, not written here
I’ve apologised to my son, Thomas, for being absent for quite a lot of his first few years, but, as a working mother and breadwinner, I kind of had to be. I like to think I’ve made up for it.

The Q&A, The Guardian, 16 March 2024 source ↗

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Rick Astley Singer, songwriter and radio presenter
My wife, because she manages me and sometimes there isn’t time for niceties and we have to talk in a language that isn’t very marriage-like.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 October 2018 source ↗
Sara Pascoe English comedian, presenter, writer
I didn’t learn to be intimate with people until I was in my 20s, so I was a very bad friend in my teens. There was a girl I was best friends with at college; I always used to kiss the boys she liked. I’d like to apologise to her.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 28 July 2018 source ↗
To my children, because their mum and dad’s relationship failed, and I know that has caused them great sadness.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 5 October 2019 source ↗
To kids I bullied in school. I have apologised and I will continue to. To repay those things karmically, I will watch my kids’ hearts like a hawk for signs of hardening or any distortions of empathy that they might develop.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 22 November 2025 source ↗

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