“You’re selfish.” It was a friend.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
“Do you know what your problem is?” It was a dear friend of mine. They were referring to the fact that I’m impatient.
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I like you but I wish you looked more like David Beckham.
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