Elaine Paige
English singer and actress
I’m happy: I have a wonderful career and great friends.
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What is the worst job you have done?
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What song would you like played at your funeral?
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Aside from a property, what is the most expensive thing you have bought?
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Asked in 52 of the 131 consecutive instalments of The Guardian's The Q&A harvested on 2026-08-29.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
When my mother was alive. She passed away 14 years ago.
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Desmond Tutu
Anglican Archbishop of Cape Town; chair of South Africa’s Truth and Reconciliation Commission; Nobel Peace Prize, 1984
Well, when in 1994 he was elected and I was given the privilege of introducing him to South Africa as our new president and to the world, I sort of whispered to God and said, “God, I don’t really mind now. I mean, if I die now, it would be almost the perfect moment.
Kathleen Turner
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When the acting is going really well – when I am flying.
Doris Day
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My childhood summers in Trenton, Ohio, and starting work at Warner Bros.
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When I realised I wasn’t going to make it as a singer-songwriter when I was about 25.
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