I hope I’ll find my mother and father in heaven. Only my father would probably say, “You can’t come and live here, boy!”
The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 June 2026 source ↗
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I hope I’ll find my mother and father in heaven. Only my father would probably say, “You can’t come and live here, boy!”
The Q&A, The Guardian, 20 June 2026 source ↗
I really hope there is a big pearly gate.
Hopefully we have life in the minds and hearts of the people we interacted with.
I don't believe in an afterlife. I don't believe in a single or multiple godhead. I respect people who do, but I don't believe it myself. But there's a big but which enters in here. I am much more conscious than I ever was, for obvious reasons, of what it will mean to people left behind once I'm dead. It won't mean anything for me. But it will mean a lot to them. ... So in one curious way I've come to believe in the afterlife as a place where I still have moral responsibilities, just as I do in this life except that I can only exercise them before I get there. Once I get there, it'll be too late.
Other people get sad.
Picking up RAF pilots’ parachute packs and gear they dropped off in a pile.
In 2001, when my eldest son died.
Trying to exercise authority over one.
Needing order always.
Being able to paint the way I do.
As a nice old man.
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