Generally? Hurting someone’s feelings. Specifically? Being kidnapped while on vacation.
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
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Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
To be abandoned.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, March 2010 source ↗
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That I might have to do a normal job.
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On my deathbed thinking I wish I would have done something that I didn’t do.
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In the mountains, climbing into beautiful places—anything that has to do with nature. I feel best in nature or near nature. And I was most happy, of course, when I was with my husband and we were in beautiful landscapes.
First of all, to be in love. The second way of being very happy is to be able to get the best out of yourself, whatever it is.
To be dishonest. Sometimes people have to be dishonest in order not to hurt, but if someone is basically dishonest, that is a different matter.
Mandela. Also, artists and painters. I admire people who are creative.
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