What has been your biggest disappointment?

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Recorded Ja’Tovia Gary said elsewhere, not written here
One of my biggest disappointments: I used to take piano lessons as a young girl, and then I stopped, because I was having a really difficult year as a kid. My step father had died, and I didn't want to do anything -- so I just stopped taking lessons. And then I think back and I'm like, “Damn, I could have been Nina Simone!” Haha

Aye'lesha Gibson, FEMEXFILMARCHIVE, 27 February 2020 source ↗

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Robson Green British actor
I did a TV job, Ain’t Misbehavin’, purely for the money. I was disappointed with myself and, inevitably, incredibly unhappy.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 12 January 2019 source ↗

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Recorded Aye'lesha Gibson, FEMEXFILMARCHIVE, 27 February 2020 source ↗
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It’s investigative curiosity at the beginning, this phase of questioning and garnering. And at the end it’s instinctual. It’s a sweet spot. There have been times where I’ve gone out and presented something thinking that it’s done and then brought it back. I’ve gotten audience reactions, brought it back, turned it up a little bit, and then it was done. Sometimes my finishing process requires me to see it with a large group of people.
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