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I’d be born a man and have a wife to run the house.
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If you could revise one chapter of your past, what would you change?Originally asked
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I wouldn’t have taken that meeting [with Weinstein in 1997].
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My all-girls’ high school. I hated it. Large groups of teenage girls aren’t known for their empathy and kindness. It was a shock to realise that people viewed me as uncool because of the way my body worked.
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Dylan’s I’ll Be Your Baby Tonight.
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