If my kids are eating Skittles or M&Ms or something which they’re not generally allowed to eat, I’ll have to organize them by color. But I don’t think that’s absurd; I think that’s perfectly reasonable. Why would you want to eat the colors out of order?
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Who most deserves an apology from you, and why?
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What is the trait you most deplore in others?
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Which book changed the way you think, and what did it change?
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When were you happiest?
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Which trait do you most dislike in yourself?
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If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
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A few years ago, I started wearing this as a uniform of sorts. It has removed all my anxieties about clothing. I now know what I'll be wearing in both summer and winter.
Charlotte Philby, My secret life, The Independent, 1 May 2009 source ↗
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Cheryl Strayed
Author of Wild and Tiny Beautiful Things
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Ryuichi Sakamoto
Composer, pianist and record producer
Listening to the sound of rain. Almost every time it rains, I start recording it. Almost each day. What else? Sensing the movements of the wind. Those very subtle things give me so much pleasure.
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Slant Magazine, Slant Magazine interview, around the release of Ryuichi Sakamoto: Coda, 25 April 2018
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Serena Williams
United States professional tennis player, 1995–2022
I love to entertain. I'm not sure every player sees it that way, but I love the performance aspect of it—to be able to entertain people week after week. Some of the happiest times in my life were spent waiting in that hallway in Melbourne, and walking out into Rod Laver Arena with my earphones in and trying to stay focused and drown out the noise but still feeling the energy of the crowd.
Adam Zagajewski
Poet and essayist
Yes, because I worship the summer, which doesn’t exactly encourage me to work, but I tell myself that life isn’t all about working. For me, summer is a time to enjoy the world, and I want to see as much of it as possible.
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