Melissa McCarthy
American actress
Gloria Steinem, because her whole life has been spent trying to help people.
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What song would you like played at your funeral?
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What did you want to be when you were growing up?
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If you could edit your past, what would you change?
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What would you like to be remembered for?
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What single thing would improve the quality of your life?
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When were you happiest?
Time & hindsight
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The Guardian's Q&A repeatedly uses this prompt, sometimes dropping 'living' while retaining the same comparative judgment.
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Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie – everything she writes speaks to me. Her Ted talk, We Should All Be Feminists, inspired everything I do with Gurls Talk.
The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 2 March 2019 source ↗
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My little sister Grace. In all the ways in which I am not capable or grounded or calm, she is.
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Danny Boyle, for obvious reasons.
My friend Josie Naughton, the co‑founder and CEO of the charity Choose Love, which supports refugees and displaced people. She left her job working for Coldplay to dedicate her life to this cause.
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I wanted to be a cooker. Not a cook: I wanted to actually be the stove.
Nothing. Everything’s got me to this point and I had to learn lots of things. Maybe I just wouldn’t have been so terrified all the time and I would have got up a bit earlier – I missed quite a few mornings.
For persevering, and being a good role model.
They are already things I work on: routine and less sugar.
On a walking safari in the middle of the Kenyan bush. I had no phone, no mirror, nothing, and I was really happy because I had no distractions.
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