So take the time to find the thing that excites you more than anything else in the world. Not the thing your parents want you to do. Or the thing that all your friends are doing. Or that society expects of you.
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What is your greatest fear?
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How do you balance creative work with other responsibilities?
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As a writer, the only thing that you can guarantee yourself pleasure and challenge from is inside your own writing process.
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