Chiwetel Ejiofor
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It’s actually people knowing how fearful I am.
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Originally asked
Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire
The exact prompt is fixed in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire and independently sustained in The Guardian's The Q&A over multiple decades.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
Losing another child. (I lost one of my sons to suicide when he was 19.)
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, July 2012 source ↗
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Walking into a room filled with friends and family singing “Happy Birthday” to me and I am completely naked.
My children dying before me.
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View profile →I wish I were braver, although I try. I work too hard and don’t play enough. Too much work ethic, not enough “fun.”
Peacefully, in good physical health, sound of mind, still active, at a great age, with my children around me.
The first 10 years of my marriage, when my children were small.
My agent Mort Janklow, Sidney Poitier, and Barbara Walters.
Not always standing up for myself enough.
Healthy, happy children. A wonderful, loving partner with whom to share my life.
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