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Needless aggression and bullying.
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You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
People’s need to feel superior to others. All it does is cause judgment and hate.
Vanity Fair, The Proust Questionnaire, Vanity Fair, April 2025 source ↗
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Rafael Nadal
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Selfishness and no respect for the others.
People who do not love. If you are not loving, you are not living. Why wouldn’t you love? What’s the problem?
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A peaceful, joyous time in the world…or in my head.
Honesty, trustworthiness, and a deep understanding of emotions.
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