What is the worst thing anyone has said to you?

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Recorded Russell Mael said elsewhere, not written here
Is that the final mix?

The Q&A, The Guardian, 24 May 2025 source ↗

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Rita Wilson American actress, singer, and producer
I was opening in a play in my 20s, and my agent came on opening night, brought flowers, took me out to dinner and then told me she was no longer going to be representing me.
Recorded The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 1 April 2023 source ↗
“What is Seann Walsh and how do we make it die?” It was online, thankfully. It wasn’t in Sainsbury’s.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 31 January 2026 source ↗
I was thrown out of a club by bouncers when I walked into somebody and told them that I was registered blind. They said: “Don’t give a fuck – you don’t belong in here.” As a straight white man, it gives you a taste of what other people have to contend with.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 November 2025 source ↗
A review of Phèdre said – because I was quite large at the time – Toby Stephens’s Hippolytus needs to get on a StairMaster.
Recorded The Q&A, The Guardian, 13 June 2026 source ↗

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