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Romantic love – what a con. (I do still believe in it.)
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What disappointment has stayed with you longest?Originally asked
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View all 367 →I bought a BMW 7 series and my best mate said: “I don’t think you should buy this, bro, it’s too cheap.” And I said: “Let’s live the dream” and put my foot down hard on the accelerator and the bottom of the engine and the gearbox blew out.
Lisa Marie Presley
American singer-songwriter
Sometimes I can have a blind trust.
I am always disappointed in myself. I always feel that I haven’t achieved enough, or been as good a parent as I could be.
Sara Cox
English broadcaster
As an adult, not having my own horse yet.
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View profile →The moment my daughter was born in 1999, because it took me seven years to conceive.
I wish I’d told my mother that, in all the years I knew her, she was never once boring. We weren’t demonstrative, so that would have meant that I loved her.
In my first job in film, a giant bloke dressed like a sumo wrestler asked me to get his G-string out of his arse. He said he couldn’t reach it.
It’s like digging a field together: it’s hard work, not very glamorous, but you can stand back and think, “We did that.”
I am going straight to cremation like David Bowie, so there would be no funeral.
I had no female role models growing up. I lived an incredibly sheltered life: there was no TV at home and we had no visitors. It wasn’t until rock and pop came into my life that I concocted myself as a role model.
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