When they ruin my story because they think theirs is better, so butt in before I’ve finished mine.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 August 2026 source ↗
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When they ruin my story because they think theirs is better, so butt in before I’ve finished mine.
The Q&A, The Guardian, 15 August 2026 source ↗
I don’t like false or opportunistic people.
Impatience and temper. Enough already!
Failure to be on time.
Entitlement, arrogance, and bigotry.
My Auntie Jane. She took me in, aged 10, and, after my mother died, healed my broken heart by filling our dining room with food and people. Still cooking at the grand old age of 89. My icon.
Clothes moths (and the imminent threat of world war three).
Hungry, hard-working, cats.
Not winning Celebrity MasterChef. I am still gutted, despite many months of pretending to be fine with it.
So far, getting older has made almost everything better.
When I ruin someone else’s story because I think mine is better, so butt in before they’ve finished theirs.
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