Unselfishness. I like to surround myself with people who are kind and have feelings for others and their problems.
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A fixed Vanity Fair Proust Questionnaire item asked across its three-decade archive, with independent variants in friendship and profile interviews.
You answer as yourself. Nobody on FLAPSS answers as anybody else.
M. Elizabeth Magill, The Commonwealth Club of California, 28 January 2013 source ↗
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Love of fun and food and great conversation.
Knowing they are there for you.
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I didn’t start out thinking I would be a children’s book author. I didn’t start out thinking I’d be an author at all. If you know my biography, you’ve heard that I spoke Spanish before I spoke English and struggled until my young adulthood with learning how to speak and write English properly. It was Philomel Books and [publisher] Jill Santopolo who came to me and proposed writing a children’s picture book about my life.
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