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In the last five years, what new belief, behaviour, or habit has most improved your life?

Andy Murray

British professional tennis player, 2005–2024

I've never set out to be a spokesperson for women's equality.

Recorded · BBC News · 2017

Sundar Pichai

Chief executive of Alphabet and Google

It took me a while to realize that the internet would be the single best way to make technology accessible to more people.

Recorded · Google (The Keyword) · 2020

Sheryl Sandberg

Former chief operating officer of Facebook; founder of LeanIn.org

Finding gratitude and appreciation is key to resilience. People who take the time to list things they are grateful for are happier and healthier.

Recorded · Los Angeles Times · 2016

David Vélez

Co-founder and chief executive of Nubank

Moving closer to work. I live in São Paulo, Brazil, and I used to spend an hour or more in traffic every day, just sitting in the car getting frustrated and anxious.

Recorded · Sequoia Capital · 2018

Barack Obama

44th President of the United States, 2009–2017; United States Senator from Illinois 2005–2008

You'll see I wear only gray or blue suits. … I'm trying to pare down decisions. I don't want to make decisions about what I'm eating or wearing.

Recorded · Vanity Fair · 2012

Novak Djokovic

Serbian professional tennis player

It was hard at first. I craved the soft, chewy, comforting feel of bread.

Recorded · Men's Journal · 2013

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What advice would you give your twenty-year-old self, and what should they ignore?

Yvon Chouinard

Founder of Patagonia

Invent your own game and that way you can always be a winner.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2019

Mellody Hobson

Co-chief executive and president of Ariel Investments

I'd say be just like you. I once had someone tell me that I don't remind them of anyone that they ever met. And I took that as a huge compliment, which meant I was original.

Recorded · NPR · 2007

Willem Kolff

Physician and inventor; builder of the first practical artificial kidney

By the way, the guys with very high grades are not necessarily the people that are the most successful in later life.

Recorded · American Academy of Achievement

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What are bad recommendations you hear in your profession or area of expertise?

Corazon Aquino

President of the Philippines, 1986–1992

I held out for participation in the 1984 election the dictatorship called, even if I knew it would be rigged.

Recorded · AmericanRhetoric.com · 1986

Tony Fadell

Engineer and designer; led the iPod and iPhone teams at Apple, founder of Nest Labs

every time I heard the word “smart” attached to anything, it means it’s pretty dumb, because no one knows what it really does.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2016

John Lewis

U.S. Representative from Georgia, 1987–2020; Chairman of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee 1963–1966

I would come home and ask my mother, my father, my grandparents, my great-grandparents, 'Why?'. And they would say, 'That's the way it is. Don't get in the way, don't get in trouble!'

Recorded · Speakola (speech transcript archive) · 2014

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In the last five years, what have you become better at saying no to?

Jeanette Winterson

Novelist and essayist

Take no notice of anyone you don’t respect. […] Take no notice of anyone with a ­gender agenda. A lot of men still think that women lack imagination of the fiery kind.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2010

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

Novelist and essayist

To get this prize, I was required to talk about how important a particular European feminist woman writer had been to me.

Recorded · Wellesley College · 2015

Steve Jobs

Co-founder and chief executive of Apple; co-founder of NeXT; chief executive of Pixar

We tend to focus much more. People think focus means saying yes to the thing you've got to focus on. But that's not what it means at all.

Recorded · Fortune · 2008

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