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If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?

Originally asked

Vanity Fair, to its interview subject, The Proust Questionnaire

Verbatim recurring item in Vanity Fair's Proust Questionnaire; two publisher-hosted respondent pages establish institutional recurrence.

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Kazuo Ishiguro

Novelist and screenwriter; Nobel laureate in Literature, 2017

I always dreamt of having a second stomach I could carry around in a bag, which I could attach to my real stomach when I sat down in restaurants.

Recorded · Vanity Fair · 2023

Adam Gopnik

Staff writer at The New Yorker; essayist

You have to discipline your mind and your heart and not to be unduly nostalgic about those losses.

Recorded · The Creative Independent · 2018

Robert De Niro

Actor

I am the way I am, and I can’t change that. Why even think about it?

Recorded · Vanity Fair · 2013

Patti Smith

Musician, poet and photographer

I would love to have a better sense of physical balance.

Recorded · Vanity Fair · 2024

Mellody Hobson

Co-chief executive and president of Ariel Investments

silver bullet is probably incentives.

Recorded · CNBC · 2021

Hugh Jackman
Indecisiveness. It can be really annoying, especially when I am out to dinner and can’t decide between the chicken or the fish.

Recorded · Vanity Fair · 2022

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If you could edit your past, what would you change?

Originally asked

The Guardian, to a different person each week, The Q&A

Repeated verbatim in The Guardian's long-running Saturday Q&A; two publisher-hosted examples establish recurrence.

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Steve Pemberton

British actor and comedian

Nothing – haven’t you heard of the butterfly effect? I could find myself still collecting glasses in Charnock Richard while Donald Sutherland would be enjoying my life.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2019

Harry Redknapp

English football player and manager

I was probably too cheeky to chairmen over the years.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2019

Sheena Easton

Scottish singer

I read too much science fiction to mess with anything. I’d be terrified that, by changing something, my kids wouldn’t be mine.

Recorded · The Guardian · 2017

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What are you most proud of?

Originally asked

Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions

Vogue's 73 Questions repeatedly asks respondents to select the work, relationship, or achievement that makes them proudest.

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Marc Guéhi

Ivorian-born English footballer; centre-back for Manchester City and England

Just the fact I have kept going. I'd say I am very hard on myself and I like it that way. It keeps me on my toes, it keeps me grounded, it keeps me focused and wanting to improve.

Recorded · BBC Sport · 2025

Paul Kagame

President of Rwanda since 2000

Very happy, very proud, apart from the loss of many lives, which can never be corrected, or we can’t do much about it. It’s probably the most expensive part of the struggle.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2017

Kei May Lau

Chair Professor of Electronic and Computer Engineering at HKUST; semiconductor and photonics researcher

I am most proud of the legacy of my students and postdocs. The real triumph, for me, is witnessing the transformation of the individuals who have passed through my lab.

Recorded · Light: Science & Applications · 2024

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What is the best advice you have ever received?

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Vogue, to one guest at a time, on camera, 73 Questions

A repeated rapid-fire prompt in Vogue's 73 Questions, verified in separate English- and Korean-language episodes.

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Paul Farmer

Physician and medical anthropologist; co-founder of Partners In Health

I had lots of teachers encourage me. And I still know some of them, my high school teachers. But one of them encouraged me.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2009

Sonia Sotomayor

Associate Justice of the Supreme Court of the United States, 2009–present

He asked me to go through the evidence of the cases, which I did. And at the end of it he said, “Well, you have one thing missing.” I said “What, I thought I covered all of the bases.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2016

Andrew Lloyd Webber

Composer of musical theatre

Harold Prince went to see it and he wrote me a letter saying don’t be discouraged about this because actually there’s some quite good songs in here.

Recorded · Academy of Achievement · 2019

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