I would be richer, I’d have beaten Mrs Thatcher’s ban on women in the cabinet, and I would be a dame.
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The floral waistcoat and shocking-pink shirt combo I wore on my 21st.
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Honest, empathetic, daring.
The children. As a mother you are constantly worrying whether you’ve done the right thing.
An English teacher said, “You’ll never make anything of yourself.”
In a different sense, I’ve helped to try to resuscitate a dead man.
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