These are the happiest days. I love the process of getting older and, sometimes, wiser.
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View all 581 →British summers give me a really happy feeling. My bedroom at our family home in Harrow looks out on to our garden and a cricket field, and you just know when it’s the first day of summer.
When I got a doctorate from my alma mater, Brunel. My mother always wanted me to become a doctor.
I can't remember a time when I was happier than now, to be honest – though that's always been the case.
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View profile →Being healthy. Sometimes we don’t know that we’re not healthy because we’re not going to the doctor—like me, when I first discovered I had diabetes years ago.
Being too open and generous to those who don’t deserve it.
COVID-19 and how it’s affecting everyone. Also, I’m afraid of not knowing when I’ll be able to perform in front of people again and enjoy an audience.
Honesty. Tell me the truth, even if it hurts.
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