Death is always close.
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The Guardian, The Q&A, The Guardian, 11 December 2021 source ↗
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View all 210 →In 2012 I stared into the eyes of someone who had just stabbed a man in the neck on the street. I was trying to help the victim; for a very long three or four seconds, I thought he was going to come for me next.
Nine years ago I discovered I had stage 3/4 uterine cancer and went through nine months of excruciating surgery, illness and chemotherapy. In that time, I touched death and it was the most powerful transformation of my life. I was forced to learn to take care of my body.
Rock climbing in Oslo. During abseiling, I hadn’t tied a knot at the end of the rope and almost slid out. I saw the end of the rope at the last second, so I stopped abseiling.
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View profile →To my brother, because when we were kids I didn’t understand his illness and it used to irritate me.
I’ve never bought a property. The most expensive thing I’ve bought was a Hyundai Tucson.
The fact that I didn’t get more success in the music industry.
Menopausal anxiety.
I could be kinder to myself.
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